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People born in this kaleidoscope of Red Dust earthly years, no matter who will be others to comment, gossip, or the United States, or ugly, good or evil; also bound to have been others, satire, rumor and slander.
As the saying goes: Who is behind do not say people? Who says no one behind? Even those who have done thousands of years old ancient, modern people also can not avoid a note.
Since it is a matter of everyone can not be avoided, then we can be done only, how to treat those who slander and defamation of our rumors.
Faced with these libelous, defamatory, some people would take no explanation, do not argue, nor will it feel revenge, but if nothing had happened to smile over. Such people, that is, the so-called tolerance, is love; is wise, but also the wisdom of people.
Everyone has experienced quarrel, who is and who are likely to produce friction. Whether the students have been, or are now contact a friend, or family members. It is also inevitable that anyone who can not be guaranteed something.
Sometimes, that is, our parents because their lack of understanding of the situation, but Cuoguai us; we often bicker with their parents therefore, Ou Qi; husband and wife also.
But, more often, doing so not only will not help to resolve the matter, it will deepen, adding another contradiction.
Instead, with a calm mind to deal with criticism until after the cooling off, then fine thoughts, this is simply the best way to resolve the matter.
Similarly, when we are faced with libel and slander others, if you hurry to go evaluation, not only for slander and defamation of the person you are without effect, it will only generate more disputes, those who slander the person you are even more aggressive.
Severe cases, there may be disturbing to their hearts, so that we had a calm heart began to grievances; to produce unpopular with the original heart of tolerance, and ultimately escape into the villain in the ranks, and their only friends.
If a person is not tolerant, even seriously, and he lives his life, will be dominated by endless hatred and revenge.
In life I can say that live very naive, it can be said to live much more tolerant. Because I argue with people from the Bu Zengxiang what? Much less to argue with people. My famous saying is: "How can war, not fight, how?"
Similarly, in this piece I think it is a world of pure text, but also the existence of such a villain. But, ultimately for me, I like to do that in life Ah Q. No matter what, I have are based on the spirit of Ah Q and attitudes to treatment for all. Because I believe the facts always speak louder than words.
Each person, for everything will have different views and arguments. But, these people are also bad people; as a time when we are faced with the kind of villain is of course inevitable that the debate was over the pages, rather than slander. While you are at in the man-made good, but it can not be everywhere can harvest good.
So, for those who played in 1:00 slander and defamation; for those who cherish evil thoughts, or even know the truth, but in your teeth at people, there is no need to care about. Ann Heart, a pragmatic manner and to do his own thing to do and do themselves wise alive.
Although I have been some setbacks, but would not like the company of others, as with the villain. If you do allow the release of her heart, depression, is also a relief for her way, then I would prefer sake of his, for defamation of her will think more of the do not care.
For those villain, this is the most effective solution. So, when I face those people who verbally abusive to me, I will not go with them from the theory.
People can not control them, can not prevent malicious slander and defamation of others, but it can stop himself.
We can not control other people's emotions; However, we can control their emotions, adjust their mentality. The least we can do without too much emphasis on slander and defamation, too seriously.
We can tolerate her, let her, avoid her, by her, ignoring her! With the tolerant attitude, to use our wisdom to deal with those libel, slander our people!
As the saying goes: Who is behind do not say people? Who says no one behind? Even those who have done thousands of years old ancient, modern people also can not avoid a note.
Since it is a matter of everyone can not be avoided, then we can be done only, how to treat those who slander and defamation of our rumors.
Faced with these libelous, defamatory, some people would take no explanation, do not argue, nor will it feel revenge, but if nothing had happened to smile over. Such people, that is, the so-called tolerance, is love; is wise, but also the wisdom of people.
Everyone has experienced quarrel, who is and who are likely to produce friction. Whether the students have been, or are now contact a friend, or family members. It is also inevitable that anyone who can not be guaranteed something.
Sometimes, that is, our parents because their lack of understanding of the situation, but Cuoguai us; we often bicker with their parents therefore, Ou Qi; husband and wife also.
But, more often, doing so not only will not help to resolve the matter, it will deepen, adding another contradiction.
Instead, with a calm mind to deal with criticism until after the cooling off, then fine thoughts, this is simply the best way to resolve the matter.
Similarly, when we are faced with libel and slander others, if you hurry to go evaluation, not only for slander and defamation of the person you are without effect, it will only generate more disputes, those who slander the person you are even more aggressive.
Severe cases, there may be disturbing to their hearts, so that we had a calm heart began to grievances; to produce unpopular with the original heart of tolerance, and ultimately escape into the villain in the ranks, and their only friends.
If a person is not tolerant, even seriously, and he lives his life, will be dominated by endless hatred and revenge.
In life I can say that live very naive, it can be said to live much more tolerant. Because I argue with people from the Bu Zengxiang what? Much less to argue with people. My famous saying is: "How can war, not fight, how?"
Similarly, in this piece I think it is a world of pure text, but also the existence of such a villain. But, ultimately for me, I like to do that in life Ah Q. No matter what, I have are based on the spirit of Ah Q and attitudes to treatment for all. Because I believe the facts always speak louder than words.
Each person, for everything will have different views and arguments. But, these people are also bad people; as a time when we are faced with the kind of villain is of course inevitable that the debate was over the pages, rather than slander. While you are at in the man-made good, but it can not be everywhere can harvest good.
So, for those who played in 1:00 slander and defamation; for those who cherish evil thoughts, or even know the truth, but in your teeth at people, there is no need to care about. Ann Heart, a pragmatic manner and to do his own thing to do and do themselves wise alive.
Although I have been some setbacks, but would not like the company of others, as with the villain. If you do allow the release of her heart, depression, is also a relief for her way, then I would prefer sake of his, for defamation of her will think more of the do not care.
For those villain, this is the most effective solution. So, when I face those people who verbally abusive to me, I will not go with them from the theory.
People can not control them, can not prevent malicious slander and defamation of others, but it can stop himself.
We can not control other people's emotions; However, we can control their emotions, adjust their mentality. The least we can do without too much emphasis on slander and defamation, too seriously.
We can tolerate her, let her, avoid her, by her, ignoring her! With the tolerant attitude, to use our wisdom to deal with those libel, slander our people!
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